I still don't get your grudge, that came up out of nowhere and at the time you whipped out some complete bullshit to try and justify it. This just now is the closest you've gotten to being honest about it, so kudos for maturing a little bit.
And this business with deciding that "trap" is a somehow a slur is a whole other mess of bullshit.
I wouldn't really call the porn industry's buzz-words slurs either, but that's a completely separate socio-political discussion that also has nothing at all to do with the term "trap".
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